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Friday, 25 December 2015

Merry Christmas........



Merry Christmas ................

Wednesday, 16 December 2015

Appeal Court Nullifies Wike’s Election As Rivers Governor








Nyesom Wike


The appeal court in Abuja has nullified the election of Governor Nyesom Wike as Rivers Governor. The three-man Court of Appeal panel sitting in Abuja struck out the appeal of Wike seeking a dismissal of the judgment of the Rivers election petition tribunal which sacked him as governor of the state.


Monday, 14 December 2015

[OPINION] This Social Media Deserves To Be Banned By Adekoya Boladale



“Hopefully, someday we will get tired of this attitude of voting people out and start focusing on voting people in” –Ayodele Sogunro


One of the identified problems militating against our development as a country is not just the absence of qualitative leadership but lack of intelligent electorates. For a nation far behind its peers in political and economic development, the desire to see Nigeria develop and take the vacant throne of leadership in Africa is prevalent in the international community.

Friday, 11 December 2015

New Music: Demmy E_Get Up (WizKid Cover)



After Dropping his hit single OGE, the impeccable vocalist Demmy Ebukah aka Demmy E had to jump on WIZKID's SOUND IT to show you guys how versitile he can be on mellow joint or a vibrant joint, if you've been sleeping on this dude then you better wake up because DEMMY E is on fire right now...........Download and share your thoughts

Music: LivingStar ft. Zubby D_Feel Alright


Music Producer and artiste "LivingStar"seem to be at the top of his game right now, dropping one banger after another, but this time he teams up with Zubby D, who dropped his album recently and he calls this song "Feel Alright as the name implies its a happy song.. you just gotta download it..


GRAFTON Entertainment in conjuction with DM Records Set To Host Timaya 'I CONCUR" Concert In December



Come December 19, 2015, in the city of Port Harcourt, Grafton Entertainment in conjunction with DM Records will be hosting, for the very first time, Timaya and Friends in a concert tagged – ‘I Concur’.

Wednesday, 2 December 2015

The Early History and Origin Of Man



Our ape-like ancestors were not unlike the existing gorilla, chimpanzee, and orang-utang. They lived in large herds and were prolific; polygamy was in vogue, and at the courting season love-duels were fought among the males. They chiefly inhabited the ground, but ascended the trees in search of fruit, and also built platforms of sticks and leaves, on which the females were confined, and which were occasionally used as sleeping-places, just as birds sometimes roost in old nests. These animals went on all fours, rising to the upright posture now and then, in order to see some object at a distance, but supporting that posture with difficulty, holding on to a branch with one hand. They were slow in their movements; their body was almost naked, so scantily was it clothed with hair; the males had but poorly developed tusks, or canine-teeth; the ears were flattened from disuse, and had no longer the power of being raised; the tail as in all great apes had disappeared beneath the skin. 

Music Adekunle Gold - 'Pick up'

 

YBNL’s ‘Orente’ crooner, Adekunle Gold never seizes to thrill as he dishes yet another record titled ‘Pick Up’.
The record ‘Pick Up’ is quite nice, and it does have a groovy urban Highlife angle to it. The Pheelz produced record is definitely a must listen to.
Listen and download.

Music Burna Boy - 'Single' ft Wizkid

 

Burna Boy has released his sophomore album “On A Spaceship”.
After releasing several hit singles such as ‘Rockstar’, the mid-tempo ‘Soke’ and more recently, the pacy ‘Follow Me’, the singer has dropped his sophomore album.
Burna Boy’s highly anticipated sophomore LP, was released November 25, 2015. And the art work which was made public via Instagram shows the singer naked from his waist up, with a Space Helmet nestling comfortably in his grip. There's also another artwork of the image superimposed on a photo from outerspace.
For now enjoy this song off the album 'Single' Featuring Wizkid.
Listen and download.

Music Kompoze - 'Ekun'



 

Hardly can one find an artiste that speaks and sings in 3 to 4 dialect.
Kompoze sets the records as he delivers this beautiful track titled ‘Ekun’ in different languages.
This beautiful track was produced by Geamat under the watchful eyes of Prince DK.
Kindly download and enjoyed this multi-vibrant sound from Kompoze.

Monday, 30 November 2015

THE DOOM LOOMS by Barr. Samuel Sunday


The NATO'S bellicose aggression in it's inordinate ambition to completely subjugate a potentially deadly match in military power and prowess is very unfortunate. Just like the mythical phoenix, the obvious resurgence of a Soviet power from the ashes via a revitalising Russia; the remnant nucleus of the USSR which the West obviously considered fragmented and militarily impotent is NATO'S dire dread. Russia is now their bogeyman. Edward Snowden has made many to figure it all out.


However I caution my mind to be both neutral and objective, it still convinces me that the U.S-led NATO is veritably striving for stern strife with Russia; probing with zest, all available belligerent opportunities to achieve it. Their hyped support for the rebellion against democracy in Ukraine, and for the Arab Spring; and trumped-up embellishment of anti-Russia rhetorics, support for the insidiously heinous monarchy of Saudi Arabia: up to the obnoxious height of not only being a member of the United Nations Council on

REVOLUTION IN NEW AFRICA: ROLE AND MISSION OF THE SOCIETY OF AFRICAN REFORMERS

REVOLUTION IN NEW AFRICA: ROLE AND MISSION OF THE SOCIETY OF AFRICAN REFORMERS

There is an ongoing national and continental sentiments of lost hope, that we cannot unite; that we are doomed for split; the international community such as the US, Britain etc, all postulated that Nigeria's Federalism is so fragile that if it fails to install the right leaders, the Geographical landmass called Nigeria will cease to exist. They say the marginalization and regional politics at the expense of our treasured national interest has eaten deep into our collective psyche; some experts conclude that the political, social and economic myriad is certainly what will devastate our politics and throw us back into the medieval period of civilization.

In addition some experts even speculated that Nigeria is a country that houses so many countries; that the six geopolitical zones was the making of some self seeking and ego driven politicians and their conspirators to further hold on power and recycle leadership, thus perpetuating themselves in the political arena and manipulating government tools and resources for their own interest at the expense of the impoverished masses.

Tuesday, 17 November 2015

Four S*xual Sins Every Christian Should Avoid




There are at least four primary s*xual sins the Word of God speaks of: adultery, fornication, uncleanness and lewdness.
Here are the definitions of these four s*xual sins:


1- Adultery: Unlawful s*xual intercourse involving at least one married person. Adultery is incompatible with the harmonious laws of family life in God’s kingdom, and is under God’s judgment since it violates God’s original purpose.


2- Fornication: p****graphy, illicit s*xual intercourse including prostitution, whoredom, inc*st, licentiousness (lack of moral restraint), and habitual immorality (would include s*xual fantasies that lead to self service).

Monday, 16 November 2015

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Rights Group Gives Buhari 7 Days To Order Army Authorities To Bring Out His School Certificate

Muhammadu Buhari-Certificate


The Centre for Human Rights and Social Justice (CHRSJ) has called on the Minister of Defence, Monsur Dan-Ali and the Nigeria Army top brass to bring out the controversial West African School Certificate (WASCE) of President Muhammadu Buhari.

Buhari, a former military head of state and retired major general had before the elections, insisted that his controversial original Certificate was in the custody of the Nigeria Army.

THE CALL FOR BIAFRA AND THE RIGHT OF A PEOPLE TO SELF DETERMINATION.

It's a common topic that runs through every people's recorded history worldwide; that a people, at a point in their existence, would face politico-economic pressure, oppression or hegemony from externally stronger races: majorly, via military prowess. From within the oppressed people, a civil movement of resistance and liberation would afterwards, be born. Heroes or heroines spring therefrom. Even Christianity, is largely a product of this phenomenon. 
British-oppressed India? Mahatma Ghandi! Apartheid South Africa? Nelson Mandela! British colonial imperialism over "Nigeria"? Our nationalists! Ogoni environmental and economic injustice? Kenule Beeson Saro-Wiwa! Ndigbo Cinderella? Chief Odumegwu Ojukwu! Howbeit, some of these heroes and heroines are unsung or never live to behold the

Tuesday, 10 November 2015

Music: GEDES – Rap God (eminem cover) | @IamGedes

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This is the first official single off ‘The Waiters Theory’ Mixtape which drops anytime from now. Rap God, a Eminem cover is laced with clever lyrics and punches,this piece of art is for rap heads and you just might hear your name on this one. Don’t wait to be told,be part of history. Track mix/mast_ by saintuzi.

Music: Lord Rapz -Sex Tape

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A storm is brewing in the south and his name is LordRapz; Real name Mordi Precious, LordRapz has been capturing Rap heads attention for awhile now with various materials on the street and his latest offering is no different, Rapz comes through with “Sextape” as he covers Joey B’s “Tonga”…… listen and anticipate more coming from LordRapz

Music: Wizkid – Good Times (Freestyle)

Wizkid season is about to kick off and ahead of the 2 new singles he announced on Twitter he has released a freestyle titled Good Times a song that is originally performed by Jamie XX featuringYoung Thug and Popcaan.

Nigerian man becomes first African to win the English-Language World Scrabble Championships

Nigerian Scrabble team with Wellington Jighere


At a small table in a quiet room in a harness racing club in Perth, Western Australia, a softly spoken man with a talent for anagrams spells out the word “felty” in small plastic tiles on a game board. In another room, 20 metres away, the crowd erupts.

The player is 32-year-old Wellington Jighere, from Nigeria, who beat 129 competitors to win the World English-language Scrabble Players’ Association championship on Sunday, defeating Englishman Lewis MacKay with four straight wins in the best-of-seven final round.

Pro-Biafrans Protesting in Port Harcourt



Pro-Biafrians are currently protesting along Aba road from Oyigbo axis in Port Harcourt, Rivers state. Meanwhile Imo state governor, Rochas Okorochas has called for an emergency meeting of South East leaders to deliberate on the recent agitations by some youths for the creation of Biafra. The meeting is expected to take place at Owerri, Imo state this weekend. this has been going on recently in Port Harcourt where public vehicles are been stopped and searched with the protesters asking passengers if they are " Biafrans or Nigerians" making it difficult for people to move with their free will, the residents of

Sunday, 8 November 2015

Music: Dj Mayen_ Nyokop


Dj mayen (d sexiest) is here again with another hot banger, the name DjMayen, no doubt is one of the names blazing the city of Port harcourt right now,  and she keeps showing us that she can take over the Nigeria music industry with out disappointing her fans. after dropping " Little Bird' few months ago which has received massive airplay and downloads with a  great video to go with it, the sexy multi talented singer shows no sign of slowing down with this love song she call " Nyokop", super melodious tone and sensational lyrics that would make you have the song on replay. if your'e wondering what she calls "Nyokop " download, find out, listen and share your thoughts. Don't forget to thank us letter °

[DOWNLOAD HERE]



Saturday, 7 November 2015

THE JOURNEY SO FAR - NIGERIA, THE SLEEPING GIANT OF AFRICA



The turn of events in Africa with regards to imperialist manifestation hurts, to say the least. While Gaddafi has been waging a loner war against the international mafia organization and their puritan two-faced dealings in Africa, he too forgot that posterity never sleeps, thus he too has eaten of the fat cake of posterity. There is a pull of event trying to drag or wreck havoc on most vibrant and outspoken African countries, starting from the Muslim north, ethno divided central Africa, down to the ethno-religious West and Southern African. East Africa is a little bit on the grid, and I am sure there is an ongoing plans by the International Economic Hitmen to siphon and ransack those countries.


How can a man who has been the Emperor of Libya for over 40 years, which is the quotient leaders summation of an entire generation, According to Adeola Aderounmu in one of our discourse said "What would it have cost him to have prepared Libyans for the future, say at worst 20 years ago?" Irrespective of the argument, the question didn't for once come as a shocker, but the obvious.

Monthly allowance of Corper Doctors in Ebonyi State reduced from #130,000 to 15k


While Pharmacists & Nurses who were earning #91,000 and #79,000 respectively, are now to be paid 5k. Photo Credit: Twitter @obaino_

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The only difference between Pen is and Penis is your Space button,, so use it properly.. lolz

What do you think about this tweet..


Anyways what do you think, who is to be given more appreciation.. because even the so-called unbelievers still thank God for miracles

The Kardashian cover Cosmopolitan Netherlands issue


 Momager Kris Jenner, Kourtney Kardashian, Kim Kardashian-West, Khloe Kardashian, Kendall Jenner and Kylie Jenner all posed on the December issue of Cosmopolitan Netherlands.

Thursday, 5 November 2015

A DIRECT LETTER TO NIGERIAN ELDERS/LEADERS


A paramount fact is undeniable, that as youths this is our future, individually and collectively. As Elders and Leaders in every African Country, your present commitment and contribution to our national upliftment shall largely mould the future society; this is indeed of paramount concern now. You must simply understand that by shaping the young minds today, leaders are designing the nature of our future generations and Africa. It is your sacred duty to supply the youth with vision and ethical values to save the diplomatic cultural heritage and the traditions that our forefathers stood as uncompromised trustees, and ably passed on to you, and finally to us in this generation and incarnation.

Wednesday, 4 November 2015

K Michelle removing her massive butt implants



In a recent interview, singer K. Michelle said she's over her massive butt & is removing the implants because the enhancement is hindering her career. K. Michelle tells B. Scott;

NDLEA impounds bullion vans with Indian hemp in Ogun State


They now transport Indian Hemp in Bullion vans? According to a report by Punch, the men of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, Ogun State command, have impounded bullion vans and a Ford bus loaded with bags and parcels of Indian hemp. Concealed inside were 42 bags of the illicit drug, weighing 512 kilogrammes. The two vans, with number plates, FKJ 731 XQ and LSR 837 XR respectively, were impounded in Ijebu Igbo area of the state, where the suspects abandoned them

Music: Mr. Bobzy_Killing Me Softly



























Port harcourt city Front liner Musical guru, Mr Bobzy known for his vocal prowess is out with another melody filled song, with severals hits and nominations under his belt he is obviously second to none and gradually carving a niche for himself, "Killing Me Softly" is a tune you ought to have
Download and share your thoughts...

Sunday, 1 November 2015

White Couple Mock Nigerians With Halloween Costume!!! [Photo]

All in the name of Halloween costume… don’t get it twisted this couple are mocking Nigerians with the slave trade era when they paraded blacks – both men and women – without clothes.

Saturday, 31 October 2015

New Music: Eljodi_7thsense


This is what broke the camel's back, the song you all have been waiting for,  the song that inspired the project 7thsense,  Eljodi went all aggressive on this joint he went as far as taking shots at his fellow Phcity rappers like Young stunna, knowledge, Timi Kay and Joke Apart, need i say more just hit the download button and see for yourself......





Wednesday, 28 October 2015

MUSIC: Eljodi_Spoken Word



Eljodi shows his poetic skills on "Spoken Word" with no instrumental but just vocals he talks on life and its happenings, we have seen and heard what he did on the first five tracks this dude has really got the rap game on smash, dropping one joint every two days, now that's basically unheard of.. download , listen and share your thoughts....

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Sunday, 25 October 2015

New Music: Eljodi_HipHop Eternal (Pound cake Cover)


HipHop Eternal is the fifth joint from the7thsense, with impressive lyrics , punchlines, word play and metaphors Eljodi really meant business when he started dropping these songs he was like " Am not sick, am a pandemic, and don't think your'e hot that's me just seen as an arsonist" go ahead and feel this lyrical track

NEW-MUSIC: Lekizzy - Show Urself Ft. Testimony

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Here is a New Hit Track of The Popular Rapper  known as Lekizzy.. He is Signed to his Own Record YDMM ENT(young dude making money)  He called this “Show Urself" Which Features Testimony... This Tune was Produced by Fly Free Its a dope music and a danceable Song.

Feel it and dance till you hear More from him..

Saturday, 24 October 2015

Tribunal Sacks Rivers State Governor Wike

Wike swearing in

The Rivers State Election Petition Tribunal has sacked Nyesom Wike as the Governor of Rivers State.
The tribunal, which delivered its ruling in Abuja on Saturday, also ordered that a fresh governorship election be conducted in the state.
The petition challenging the election of Mr. Wike as Rivers State Governor was filed by Dakuku Peterside, the candidate of the All Progressives Congress, APC, in the election.
The Rivers governorship election, which was criticised by local and international observers, witnessed the largest amount of violence both in its build-up and after the elections.Read More

Friday, 23 October 2015

Music:Eljodi ft. Durus Petz and Moddel_Love Life



 Eljodi just got to the second half of his fire spitting mission, the 7thsense has various songs which started dropping on the 13th of this month but Love Life is a hell of a catchy tune which has Phcity rappers Durus Petz and Moddel, Spitting on "Black Magic's" repete beat, these dudes killed the song with their various love stories...... download , listen and share

[DOWNLOAD HERE]

New Music:Dozeill ft. Dandizzy and Eljodi_Dead On Arrival


Phcity/New Skul Muzik Gang Lyrical Ambassador Dozeill is back with another record off the Coming Mixtape Titled ''BLUE-BLOOD''... He calls this one Dead On Arrival - an Afro-HipHop Tune as he Features 2 Phcity's Finest Rappers Dandizzy and Eljodi.

Dead On Arrival” was Produced by Monarkh and Mixed By Everblazin Producer Donbaz. Dozeill is currently putting the final touches to his highly anticipated mixtape which is set to drop before the end of the year.

Watch out for a few videos off the “BlueBlood” tape and a few others! follow on Instagram @iamdozeill  

Tuesday, 20 October 2015

Police Nab Disabled 71-Year-Old Man For defiling Primary Six Pupil In Ogun


It was learnt that the victim, who resides with her grandmother in Ago-Alagbede in the Agbado area of the State, fled home last Tuesday in order to escape being punished by her uncle for unruly behaviour. Odiwe was alleged to have taken the 12-year-old in at his resident at Atila, a neighbouring community, where he allegedly defiled her.

Odiwe who had been staying with his younger brother, who is a tenant to the victim’s grandmother was sent packing in 2013 following a discovery that he was allegedly assaulting female children in the community sexually.

SHOCKING!!: Port Harcourt International Airport Ranked Worst In The World

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Port Harcourt International Airport has been ranked as the worst airport in the world by SleepingInAirports, a website that reviews the best and worst airports in the world.


The airport was one of the five approved for remodeling by the Federal Government in 2010 in a project that was reported to cost N90 billion. When, then Rivers State Governor Rotimi Amaechi alleged in 2013 that the FG had abandoned the project, Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria (FAAN) General Manager Corporate Communictions, Yakubu Dati denied, saying 90 percent of the entire job had been completed.

However, SleepingInAirports 2015 Airport Survey showed Port Harcourt International Airport to be the world’s worst.
Every year, SleepingInAirports conducts a survey asking travellers to rate their airport experiences based on the services and facilities available within the terminal, cleanliness, customer service, comfort and their overall airport experience.
“Those that top our charts for worst airports in the world collected the most negative feedback from voters over the past year. These airports fall flat in terms of providing any kind of enjoyable overall airport experience. Instead, they’re dirty, uncomfortable, unfriendly and lack the most basic of services and amenities. They elicit passionate critiques from those who visit them, and countless warnings for future travellers to avoid these places at all costs,” SleepingInAirports said on its website.

Voters suggested that apart from being the worst airport in the world, Port Harcourt Airport should also win the title of most corrupt airport in the world.
“The terminal’s unpleasant and unhelpful staff help to earn it this trifecta of atrocious awards. With virtually no seating, broken air-conditioning and a tent for an Arrivals Hall, it was a struggle for many voters to pass the minimum required amount of time here. The good news is that some areas of the terminal have been recently renovated, meaning you can expect actual walls, floors and windows. Though it is a far cry from reasonable, improvements are being made,” SleepinInAirports noted.
Other Airports on the list of world’s worst are:

Jeddah King Abdulaziz International Airport, Saudi Arabia (JED)

Kathmandu Tribhuvan International Airport, Nepal (KTM)

Tashkent International Airport, Uzbekistan (TAS)

Caracas Simón Bolívar International Airport, Venezuela (CCS)

Port au Prince Toussaint Louverture International Airport, Haiti (PAP)

Kabul Hamid Karzai International Airport, Afghanistan (KBL)

Ho Chi Minh City Tân Sơn Nhất International Airport, Vietnam (SGN)

Islamabad Benazir Bhutto International Airport, Pakistan (ISB)

Paris Beauvais-Tille International Airport outside Paris, France (BVA)


Monday, 19 October 2015

New Music: Eljodi_El Is (7thsense3)


EL IS is the third track off the 7thsense installment, the rapper promised to drop seven songs and with the way things are going he's on flames right now on this third joint, 'EL IS" is like a remake off Nas is like, well a couple rappers did jump on that illmatic collection, like MODE is like, BIX_F is like, now EL IS ... download and share your thoughts

Music: Obidiz_Obi Is A Boy



Fast rising afro-pop artiste,OBIdiz (@chykeobidiz) showcases the depth and versatility of his talent with this reggae influenced song titled, obi is a boy... An excellent fusion of high-life melody on a rub-a-dub beat which is already enjoying airplay and massive rotation by Djs even before the official release date The song which is dominated mainly by Nigeria' indigenous language (Igbo) gives credit to streets and spots around Port Harcourt his place of birth and residence...


Music: Tha Beast_Revelation

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After winning so many competitions including MTN YELLO INVASION RAP BATTLE UNIZIK and coming out 1st runner up in "anambra got talent" our own very versatile rapper THA BEAST comes out with this track titled  REVELATION....This track is the first track off THE GENESIS MIXTAPE  which THA BEAST decided to put together after much demands from the fans!!! While he works on the mixtape?.... download this and share with friends!! And do well to enjoy


Sunday, 18 October 2015

New Music: Olamyte_Sexy Girl

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Sexy Girl by #Olamyte, the Taboo (Eewo) crooner is a piece to encourage the guys out there to appreciate their women & be proud of them. Particularly, the beautiful ones. Olamyte says they should Show her to the world (gbepon), & never hide her (ma gbe pamo), the Sexy Girl.


Music:Greo – So Long | Oral Tradition Album

Greo - So Long | Oral Tradition Album
Greo – So Long | Oral Tradition Album
Greo is an Alternative HipHop Artiste from Benin City. He released Soul Therapy EP in 2012 which featured Boogey, Fame, Mofame, Duno etc. He has also worked with the Likes of Lord V, Paybac and McSkill Tha Preacher.
Oral Tradition was the medium information, Legends,folklore were passed from generations to generations by ancient Griots. Greo which was dubbed from the word “Griot” reenacts the art of story telling with this eccletic project “Oral Tradition”. This is a conceptual album which tells the story of a Sojourner who goes on a journey against all odds to achieve what He desires. He

New Music: Durus Petz_Open Letter


Finally the highly anticipated song is here for your listening pleasure, Durus petz also known by one of his Aliases "Due Respect" but he did something far from his usual comic rap pattern and displays his story telling skills on this emotional song, "Open Letter" talks about his journey and experiences as a younging to this present day, you can actually picture his life on this piece, well feel free to open up the envelope and read the open letter



Friday, 16 October 2015

New music:Legendary By Eljodi (7thsense 2)


Legendary is the second output from the 7thsense concept and Port harcout city rapper "ELJODI", is set to drop one rap song every two days which he did on the 13th of this month titled life and times, exclusively lyrical content carving a niche for himself in the Port harcourt city Hiphop scene and beyond

Music:Legacy by Incredible Mario ft. Slami, Mr. Bobzy and Durus Petz


Incredible Mario Teaming up with the likes of Mr. BobzyDurus petz and Slami can only yield an impressive piece, the track is quiet melodious and lyrical with strong vocals, punchlines and
wordplay from the rappers download and share your thoughts



Dance Video: Rave_Me, Myself and I (Justin beiber cover)






Another outstanding output from the Maltina Dance All season 8 winner and pop sensation Rave, always energetic and vibrant, the singer and dancer has multiple dance videos and makes dancing look easy, he calls this 'Me , Myself and I' download and share your thoughts

Thursday, 15 October 2015

Music: Debby J_ Rock On


Debby J is a fierce Port harcourt city artiste, she is one female you should look out for, from the stables of "LS musik" with a track like ROCK ON you're sure to shake your body to this gbedu.
download and share your thoughts


The 3 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Breaking Up With Someone

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Things have been going well for the two of you for quite some time. There may have even been a point when you thought he or she was the one you were going to spend the rest of your life with.
But then, you hit rocky waters.
You started to question whether he or she is the person you ought to be with. You started to wonder whether the love the two of you shared still exists or whether the relationship has peaked and is now on a steady